The wedding is in May… we’ve been together for 4 years and yes I have already taken on the position of wife and he husband. I work from home running my own baby blanket business(in a few years I hope to be a WAHM) No we don’t have children(we’re waiting until after the marriage is finalized :) He works very hard to support our small family and some days even weeks I feel like I fail as a wife… I get to focused on my sewing and redecorating(new house) and the dishes pile up or laundry doesn’t get done…. normal womanly things that I’d just like to be more ON THE BALL with. We have a very strong and happy relationship, we’re both very supportive of eachother and he tells me it’s okay and I do a good job. But I swear the house gets to looking like a frat house sometimes and I get so ashamed that my house can go from a starkly 10 to a dingy 4, you know? Any tips welcome! I am horrible at time management.

