Let things go

I just need to learn how to let thangs go like i use to, i use to have to best state of mind. I hardly worried, i would let it ride and just let thangs work out on its own. My sayings were “Everything happens for a reason” and “There is always someone out there that has it worse than you”. But some how i have lost that some where, and while im on this path of trying to find myself, i just hope i can get back to that state of mind. There is really no need to let thangs get to you, there here then there gone, its in the past. And i thank i might be pushing the one girl i love and always will love away because of it.