Two things that really helped me stop being jealous in my relationship:
1. Longetivity. We’ve been together almost two years and are planning a summer wedding and looking at houses together. I spent a month with him and his family in Japan. I hated it when my friends told me that I’d stop being jealous once we’d been together longer, but it’s true.
2. Working out. I started working out and am slowly going from ‘average’ to ‘awesome’ in my body weight. I’ve lost 8 pounds and a pants size. We were at a party over the weekend and checking out the women around me I realized that A: I look better than they do, and B: I could beat them up (yay weight lifting). Going to the gym has given me a ton of confidence. My boyfriend insists that no matter how I look, I look perfect, and I believe him. But I FEEL better about how I look, and that makes a difference in how I interact and react to him.
