says I should be grateful to have a Mum and aren’t I lucky she’s alive and wouldn’t I miss her if she was dead…
DON’T!
That is unhelpful and patronising. She is insulting, has no qualms about being spiteful, complains, never lets it be ‘my time’ and quite frankly after todays little tantrum then I’ve officially had enough. I am not going to have her be the negative thing in my life and until she realises that she’s the reason everyone has alienated her then I refuse to put myself out there again.
Nope it’s not the time for me to be the bigger one, the generous one, the one who blah, blah. Sometimes you have to do what you believe is right for you.
If so many things about me enough that she feels obliged to tell a new friend of mine these things, then frankly I don’t see why she would even want to be around me! I know I don’t want to see her until she can admit that she is the one that errs.
