get over a breakup

It’s been about four months since my ex of three years and I broke up. And since we’ve been good friends for 8 years before that, dated for three, it’s been hard. What hurts the most is that since I’ve waited 3 years for him to get his life together, even taking empty promises while he sat on his ass, taking our time and love for granted, he broke up with ME! I know he did so because he could tell I was not tollerating his lies and my patience all that much anymore. Not only did he break up with me, he ignored my calls to talk about it and broke up with me on myspace!! How insensitive is that? I’m getting better and better as the days go, but what I’m noticing now is that no matter how hurt I am by him and betrayed, I miss the bastard! Even though I know I’m better off without him, I still wake up and reminese the moments we had together sleeping on his chest and such. Just hurts to know I may never see him again. I know he’s not worth my tears, but will I get over missing him? Will this feeling pass?