I’m 40 years old, live in North Africa. I had the Alopecia since I was 10 and I had to go through all what you guys are talking about but it seems the older I get the worse it comes to. I’ll explain :On my late 20s I got engaged to a beautiful girl who was pleased with my condition but her parents put her under a hard pressure to break the engagement coz I was wearing a wig they even KICKED me out of their house!!!!! Surprising enough after that incident I got into so many relationships with girls from different nationalities none of them was even bothered about me having no hair at all. I’m married now and got a lovely kid but a year ago when he came to the school age I applied for a so called a good school with professional staff, on my second visit to that school checking if the kid been accepted I saw this statement on my application:” A BOLD FATHER NOT UP TO THE SCHOOL STANDARD” !!!!! For couple of weeks I couldn’t get any sleep with a feeling of being humiliated and discriminated…believe it or not.. my kid was rejected because I have no hair. I’m wearing no wig for the last 4 years, it is more comfortable at sometimes but most of the time I avoid busy places like cafe’s, restaurants, clubs…any public place, people would not feel satisfied staring at me but they laugh and laugh showing me intentionally that they are laughing at me. Even when I stop at traffic lights, people in cars next to me they do the same and sometimes the call me bold out loud and other times it gets to the extend of swearing at me calling me son of …..!!!!!!
I try to make up for my look with no hair by dressing up with the best Italian clothes, shoes, Swiss watches, driving best car as I’ve got a well paid job but it seems not working.
I hate being locked at home.. I only dream of 1 thing: going out without being stared or laughed at.
Do you think this dream will ever come true?
Thanks
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I’m 40 years old, live in North Africa. I had the Alopecia since I was 10 and I had to go through all what you guys are talking about but it seems the older I get the worse it comes to. I’ll explain :On my late 20s I got engaged to a beautiful girl who was pleased with my condition but her parents put her under a hard pressure to break the engagement coz I was wearing a wig they even KICKED me out of their house!!!!! Surprising enough after that incident I got into so many relationships with girls from different nationalities none of them was even bothered about me having no hair at all. I’m married now and got a lovely kid but a year ago when he came to the school age I applied for a so called a good school with professional staff, on my second visit to that school checking if the kid been accepted I saw this statement on my application:” A BOLD FATHER NOT UP TO THE SCHOOL STANDARD” !!!!! For couple of weeks I couldn’t get any sleep with a feeling of being humiliated and discriminated…believe it or not.. my kid was rejected because I have no hair. I’m wearing no wig for the last 4 years, it is more comfortable at sometimes but most of the time I avoid busy places like cafe’s, restaurants, clubs…any public place, people would not feel satisfied staring at me but they laugh and laugh showing me intentionally that they are laughing at me. Even when I stop at traffic lights, people in cars next to me they do the same and sometimes the call me bold out loud and other times it gets to the extend of swearing at me calling me son of …..!!!!!!
I try to make up for my look with no hair by dressing up with the best Italian clothes, shoes, Swiss watches, driving best car as I’ve got a well paid job but it seems not working.
I hate being locked at home.. I only dream of 1 thing: going out without being stared or laughed at.
Do you think this dream will ever come true?
Thanks
