So for the next week or so i need to make sure i give him his space, and get out myself so i dont get bored and upset. Im doing good appart from today was a bit dogey because i got stressy coz he didnt have time to speak to me, but it will get better, im sure :) I am determined to keep this relationship together, ok so i am going to not get moody or jelous of him when he goes out, remind him how much i love him and 100% no arguing when i do see him x
TinyDancer2479 has written 3 entries about this goal
only got till thursday left with my baby before he goes away :( :(... but i am going to try and be strong, no way will i get through saying goodbye without crying, but all i have to think about is keeping myself bussy for the next 3 weeks and then i will be able to go and see him for the weekend, it will be okay, i know it will be. I am going to help him get his stuff redy for university tuesday day, and then im taking him out for a meal on tuesday night, then he will probilly stay at mine and we will cuddle up. I have not argued with him for a while and we have had the best few days, i am trusting him more now and its good :). When he goes away i need to find that balane of giving him his space and also making sure i call him every night, texting him, talking on msn to him ect ect.And then when i do go and see him we will just make up for lost time.
Next weekend i am going out for my best friends birthday, and i am going to try and arrange some other things for myself to keep bussy so i dont sit in feeling sorry for myself. it will be fine, need to think positive! x
Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year now, and i love him more than anything on this earth, but he is going to university in a few weeks, and its going to take me about 2 hours on a train every other weekend to see him. But im going to do it anyway :) I have recently had an accident that was life thretning, and i think its made us really strong as a couple, but the last few days i have been realy paniking about me and him when he is at uni, we were meant to be going on holiday at xmas, but due to student finace he cant go, so im planing to take him to paris for a few nights as his xmas prezzie, but im not going to mention it till he is at uni and settles in as we have been arguing over the holiday.
What i want to do is, get less jelous when he go’s out with friends that happen to be girls, as he will be friend with girls at uni and there is nothing i can do about it. I am also going to give him his space, and just try to be more fun and stop taking him for granted.
Also when i go up to see him at uni i want to make it really nice, take him up goodies, make him a cake and take some nice food up he wouldnt by for himself, also make sure i look nice, take money so we have things to do ect. And when he is there im going to call him every night and i just want to keep positive.
I know its going to be hard and stuff, but i really want this to work, im also going to keep reminding him that in mu half term i get 2 whole weeks to go and see him! I reallly hope it works. I’ll keep you poasted!
