Actually I’m still in the process of doing this- But I’ve come a long way. I think getting older & becoming more confident has a lot to do with it. In addition to reminding myself that high school is long over- it doesn’t matter what my peers may think- I’m just here to do me. Right now I’m going through a major cleavage phase- the more tits the better(but in a classy way & only on the weekends). I wear clothes that actually fit now. No more drowning in baggy shirts & faded jeans w/ holes in the knees (well, maybe on a weekend or 2). AND accessories DO maketh the clothes! Esp. earrings… and a little makeup.