Have A Better Relationship With My Family and My Husband

(The above picture is My GrandParents in 1960-My Grandma was 17 and my Grandpa was 15!) I wish that we lived in Perfect-Ville. Things would smooth over so much quicker and easier if we did. I wish my Mother wasnt the person she is and has been. I wish my Husband would talk to me and tell me what his problem is. I wish I knew who my Dad is/was. I wish my Step-Dad could be trusted. I wished my Grandfather would leave me and my family alone. I wish my Grandmother was stronger and healthier.