Fall in love

A good friend once advised me not to cut off my relaxed hair and go natural because I’d be alienating my ‘market’. I remember her statement clearly because a year on from chopping all my hair off I’ve dated 3 great guys (currently dating the third, we’ll see how it goes :-D). The hair wasn’t the issue, the real issue was being the authentic me which in turn, attracts authentic guys. I look forward to seeing what the future holds.

Ok, so today my friend called me out on spending too much time with my ex. She said that the way I talk about him is as if he’s my current squeeze. Not easy to hear but I appreciate her honesty with me, she’s a good friend. And now in order to make room for a new man, I need to gain some distance from my ex.

Said goodbye to the love of my life two years ago. Our feelings for each other were just as strong as ever but I was increasingly aware that we wanted different and we going in different directions. Two years on and now I’m ready to love again.