TwiPrime is doing 17 things including…

be nicer to my boyfriend


 

TwiPrime has written 2 entries about this goal

Joy 4 years ago

So, I get home from work and he’s still passed out on the couch, but he has apparently gotten up to forage around for food. I find this out gradually. The first sign is that he got confused about where the garbage goes. My laundry hamper full of books and stuff (which came out of the car when I was trying to make it more liveable) has a garbage bag in it, on top of my things. There’s garbage in that, so I take it out and see that he tossed some garbage in before he put the bag in. So there are half-eaten apples and other stuff on some books I was planning to sell on Amazon, some other books I justbought myself, and a folder of training material for my new job. Disgusting.

So, I clean my things up as best I can, my shoes sticking to the floor because he spilled soda earlier and didn’t do a very good job of mopping it up. Then I notice that the spill went dangerously close to my modem and USB cables. I got some of that mopped up. Since I was able to get online and start typing this, I presume no real damage has been done.

One of the things that seems to have sticky brown stuff on it is the lid of my tea pitcher, which is on the counter by the dish drainer, so the spill must have gone there too(?), I figure. This makes me think, shouldn’t that lid and pitcher be in the fridge where I left it? So I look and my tea is gone from the fridge—maybe that’s what he spilled. I see that something was spilled in the fridge too, so I wipe that up and open the vegetable trays to see if anything leaked in there. And I find. Much to my chagrin, I find. Almost an entire half-gallon of ice cream in the vegetable tray. I literally shout when I find this, “MotherFUCKER!!!” Even this doesn’t wake him up. It’s nice and melted and I just toss it in the trash.

Somehow, soda or tea or something got poured into a tupperware bowl of uncooked grits too.

I’m wondering if I should even try to get him to go to bed. I’m afraid he may be sticky from the spill. This is bullshit.



Untitled 4 years ago

See, sometimes it’s hard. Today, for instance, he was asleep on the couch sitting up. When I tried to talk to him and see if he was doing ok, he mumbled incoherently, which says to me that he either took too much of his prescribed medications, or acquired a medication from a friend, which may or may not have been a substance previously prescribed to him by his doctor.

The mumbling was no problem, but after a while he woke up and started trying to put his boots on. On the wrong feet. While he was still in his underware. I tried to tell him he needed to put his pants on first, but he said he would work it out himself.

Ok, fine.

But then when I told him I needed to go ahead and give him a kiss, so I could get on the road to my job, he started being nasty with me about how I don’t do anything for him (an exaggeration he loves) and how I had better pay him back the money I owe him (not an exaggeration, but a situation on which we’ve already come to an agreement, which I’ve stuck to so far).

He was just very surly. Before I left, I called and asked his son to stop in and check on him if he got a chance. I’m just hoping I don’t have to deal with some kind of raging terror after he’s slept it off.



 

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