list things that I am good at

- not appearing as scared or nervous as I actually am
- just dealing with it
- driving
- arguing
- petting cats

-saving money
-keeping track of things
-fishing
-origami
-listening when I want to
-or when I don’t, necessarily
-finishing things I start

-being a figurative cheerleader
-giving hugs
-paying attention to small children
-keeping metal shiny
-talking to people who are, in my humble estimation, crazy
-scrapping, flea marketing, thrifting, and clearence rack and yard sale shopping

-Cooking
-Cleaning
-Looking like I understand when I have no idea what people are talking about
-Helping my friends and family feel loved
-Keeping my word
-Being on time