have better sex

For those of you who have read anything under my now-completed “feel sexy again” goal, that has certainly gone a long way in my work towards this goal!

But, as I’ve mentioned before, I don’t think I will ever be able to mark this one off as being absolutely complete . . .

I can now reinstate this goal.

As the saying goes, “practice makes perfect.” I hope I get more of a chance to practice now, and to have a lot of fun on the way to perfection . . .

I’m just removing this temporarily for a new goal. Once that’s been completed, I’ll reinstate it.

As the Beatles’ song in Sergeant Pepper goes, “It’s getting better all the time . . .”

I realized last night that this is a goal that I will probably never mark as “complete.”

Yes, it is better, but no matter how good it is, there will probably always be room for improvement and experimentation. And I’m ok with that!

Not too much to add at the moment, other than sometimes it’s better in the morning than at night . . .

We finally figured it out Friday night. And it only took us six months after the birth of the baby to get it right!

It was almost like the first time all over again. I wouldn’t recommend waiting six months in between times doing this (or really, for us it was over a year due to pregnancy and stress and such), but well worth the wait.

And I’m sure now it’ll just get better from here. We’re not going to rush things, but at least it was a good start . . .

Returning to the world of sex after the birth of the baby has not been as easy as I thought it would be.

Let me rephrase that: I never thought it would be easy for either one of us. However, it’s been even more difficult than imagined.

We’re both at work all day, and by the time the baby is down for the night we’re exhausted. And, we’ve both been sick recently, which hardly puts one “in the mood.”

But, we’re moving slowly. I guess it will take “baby steps” before we’re ready to proceed. A massage before bed every now and again, a makeout session whilst watching TV, a nice dinner by candlelight, etc. Slowly but surely we’ll get back to the main event!

And from there, we’ll move on and find what works for us, and it will be better than ever!

The baby was born two months ago, and obviously per doctor’s orders and because of the general factor of “ickiness” we might encounter, we have yet to work on this little goal of mine.

However, we may finally be at a point where we can start to work on this again. While this is my goal, I’d like for it to be a goal that both of us will eventually benefit from completing. I’m looking forward to it!

First, I must say that my sex life now is terrific as it is. My wife currently being pregnant with our first child has put a (necessary) crimp in it for the time being, but before that little “roadblock” it was terrific. However, there’s always room for improvement. We seem to be stuck in a rut. The ol’ “missionary” works, and we stick with it since we both end up satisfied (trust me, no faking here). But I want to explore and experiment a bit. Other positions, kama sutra, varying degrees of kink, etc. Obviously this will be hard once normal operations resume with the baby and all, but it’s something we both want to look into when we’re able. Suggestions and comments are most definitely welcome . . .