set realistic goals

Are my goals just crazy? Are my goals unrealistic? I haven’t been able to check off one thing yet! Maybe I’m just reaching for the wrong stuff. I don’t know how close if at all I am to any of them and that really sucks. Am I just lazy? How will I know when I’m over my ex? If I work on this constantly doesn’t that mean that I ‘m constantly thinking about her? I don’t know, I just feel like I’ll never accomplish anything anymore and that’s a difficult state to be in. Damn theses goals!