Xenny in Cambridge is doing 37 things including…

Be more compassionate

25 cheers |

Xenny has written 5 entries about this goal

Untitled  — 1 year ago

I really need to think more about what exactly this means

Jul 23, 2006, 01:46PM PDT | 0 comments

Untitled  — 1 year ago

I don’t think I’ve really been thinking about this as much as I’d like to. So I’ve no real idea of whether I’m doing it or not. Interest.

Jun 25, 2006, 03:01PM PDT | 0 comments

Untitled  — 2 years ago

It’s easier to be compassionate when you feel yourself to securely have the upper hand (though probably a lot of the time pity is a better word for that). But when you feel someone to be in a more ‘fortunate’ position, and you don’t like what they’re making of it, then compassion doesn’t come so naturally! I still prefer this state of affairs to having the upper hand too easily over someone I like and respect but worry might be completely losing it.

Apr 12, 2006, 05:13PM PDT | 0 comments

And today this also feels ridiculous  — 2 years ago

I am so far from compassion I can barely type the word

Mar 15, 2006, 06:57PM PST | 0 comments

Untitled  — 2 years ago

I mean towards myself and towards others, but I think they go hand in hand. It’s always easier to denounce something/someone as bad or wrong rather than to consider the situation more openly. I felt this was going quite well up until the last week. I’ve gotten very angry this last week!

Jan 25, 2006, 10:33AM PST 1 cheer | 2 comments

Xenny has gotten 25 cheers on this goal.

 

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