Stop wallowing in self pity

I am determined to make this happen. Life is not moving far when I pity myself. If anybody achieved it, I’d love to know. Also, after a thorough research I found the following website and I am giving it a try!!!
How to Handle Self-Pity

I decided to start with this goal. It may sound easy, but I’ve had ~30 years of practice. Now, I want to break this habit pattern. I want to surround myself with strong, positive, empathetic people to learn from by observing. I will be adding sub-goals to make it easier for myself to take baby steps towards this goal.