aafje1976 in Netherlands is doing 17 things including…

quit saying I'm sorry

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aafje1976 has written 2 entries about this goal

Week 2 | Still trying 2 years ago

I think I’m doing okay on this goal. I’m aware of my ‘begging sorry’s’ and I swallowed a few :)



Week 1 | I'm trying... 2 years ago

... but this will probably be a hard habit to change!

I made an analysis of why I’m saying sorry so often. Usually when I say sorry to my boyfriend (because I find myself sloppy or lazy or cranky or whatever), what I actually want, is him to reassure me, to give me a compliment or a hug. So by stating something negative about me, I’m forcing him to say something positive about me. This has to change. I am going to try to ask him straight out for a hug, a sweet word, etcetera.

I’ll try to update next Sunday on how I’m doing.



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