make a list of 43 rewards, smaller and larger, to give myself for accomplishing goals.

41. A new piece of clothing. Golly, I love pretty clothes!

42. A quiet, but heartfelt “Attagirl!” to myself. I will appreciate my successes at least as enthusiastically as I pick on myself about my failings.

43. A footrub!

36. Really great stretch break!

37. A glass of good wine.

38. A movie

39. Dinner with a friend

40. Read a novel, just for fun.

I just realized I’ve been on 43T for more than 3 years. Amazing.

Been here since Feb 9, 2005. My, how time flies!

31. A nap!

32. Knit something for one of my kids.

33. Take a trip somewhere I’ve never been.

34. Another nap.

35. Hug my sweetie.

26. Take an aimless drive.

27. Acquire another shawl. I love shawls.

28. Play dominoes and drink champagne.

29. Dance, for fun, all over my apartment.

30. Get someone ELSE to do my eyebrows.

21. a new ipod

22. one of those fun walks I haven’t taken

23. a dark chocolate bar. The good stuff.

24. buy some little plants

25. dig in Cat’s garden

16. Go somewhere I can really enjoy the night sky, WITH stars. Stare at them as long as I want.

17. Foot massage.

18. A new kippah.

19. Visit a cat.

20. Drive somewhere I have not been before, some new road.

11. Sleep in an extra hour one day.

12. Read an L.M. Montgomery novel for FUN.

13. Go on iTunes and get myself a new piece of music.

14. A bubble bath.

15. Fresh sheets on the bed.

6. Go to the nicest produce section around, pick out some ridiculously gorgeous piece of fruit and eat it! (Er… after I pay for it, of course.)

7. A trip to the movies!

8. A DVD from my Amazon wishlist.

9. Take myself to a museum in LA I haven’t visited yet.

10. Buy myself flowers.

1. A little day trip up to the desert.

2. A little day trip to the ocean.

3. A goofing-off afternoon or morning.

4. A massage.

5. A manicure.