In tantra, one must learn control in order to sustain higher and higher levels of bliss without emission or orgasm, since that would terminate immediately the entire blissful experience.
agilesport has written 11 entries about this goal
To have a Guru is essential in tantra.It is called Guru Yoga.I still do not feel convinced.
Renunciation is essential in order to channelize the energy of lust as a path without becoming a Hedonist, and it is necessary to have a mind filled with infinite compassion in order to use anger as a path without becoming a malevolent demon.
I think tantra and sufism are on the opposite ends ;somehow i am fascinated by both.Seems paradoxical?
