My boyfriend gives fabulous massages. It was actually the first sort of physical contact we ever had at all – a massage. It was incredibly stimulating. Now I ask for them whenever I’m feeling genuinely stressed…they’re a great help and always relax me. I wish I could draw out the same sort of reaction from him, but my massages so far have all fallen flat. I feel like this is a theme in our physical relationship: he is such a giver, while I just take and take.
I want to give him the same experience that I enjoy. He says I don’t use enough pressure, but there are times when I feel like I can’t press any harder than I already am. I don’t know if I need to become physically stronger or if I’m just using the wrong technique, but I will look into it. When I give him a massage that truly does the job, then this goal will be complete.
