120. In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding that they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place
121. Addictions is the hallmark of every infatuation-based loved story.
122.To find the balance you want. You must keep your feet grounded so firmlyon earth that it’s like you have four legs, instead of two. That way you you can stay in the world. But you must stop looking at the world through your head. You must look through your heart instead. That way you will know God.
123. God is not merely a blinding vision of glorious light, but that He is, most of all. The love that moves the sun and the stars
124.Never forget that once upon a time, in an unguarded movement, you recognized yourself as a friend.
125. Be lonely [Liz]. Learn your way around loneliness. Make a map of it. Sit with it, for once in your life. Welcome to the human experience. But never again use another person’s body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilled yearnings.
126. Do not apologizefor crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots.
