become better at small-talk

doing better…

but i can’t stop thinking this is stupid

maybe i’m too personal in small-talk

i’ve always been amased by the way my dad, saying a few word (sometime not a word), made people talk to him.

i’ve always found this was wasted time and i don’tlike those banalities. just saying things becouse it socialy must be said. but what even revolt me more is the fact that poeple doesn’t even care about answers and what you say. it seems really fake sympathy to me.

but if you look at it as a social ritual like shaking hands, maybe it could become acceptable… just think about it.

anyway, the fact that i doesn’t say much don’t affect me. (i mean, i can talk a lot when i have something to say… or when i’m drunk lol). But i’ve learned today that other people where affected by the fact i never talk much to them (but they didn’t small-talk with me too. i’m very polite and i’ll answer them.)

so if this small-talk are usefull for our wonderful social cohesion, i should stick myself in rules of social life.