get my wig busted

and I seriously need a new do. I’ve had the same long straight hair for like 12 yrs now…omigosh, I need a new style, thinking about getting some long layers, and absolutely keeping it long, just want it to have more bounce to it. In much need for a change.
My problem is I don’t trust anybody to cut my hair. Why do they all want to chop it off, scares the beejeezus out of me. I’ll have to find the right person, so this may take awhile.