say no

... and i’m loving it.

This used to be me:
*can you be home on the weekend to watch the housekeeper clean? – ok.
*i’m free now, can we do lunch? – sure
*please help me move my heavy ass furniture – why not.

Nevermind that i’m rushing from point A to point B; AND trying to do your thing. Nevermind that i have a life and i want to do: NOTHING.

So, NO to things that i don’t want to do, even though i am more than capable of.
NO to things that will cause me to rush like crazy therefore turning into nutso manic woman, who people then ask, “are you ok?”
NO to rearranging my schedule to suit yours.

So refreshing – must continue to do so.