Meet someone who takes being an adult seriously

That doesn’t mean being serious stuffy. It means enjoying things that tradition and culture have made just for adults, like fancy dinners that you have to dress up for, parties that exclude children, good live music, an after dinner smoke, serious literature, possibly even with discussion of main themes and wider cultural implications. Listen, sometimes I like SpaceGhost and ABBA, but sometimes I like Dos Pasos and Thelonius Monk. Let’s don’t overemphasize the easy and childish and neglect the complicated and ultimately more satisfying.