Ugh....
3 years ago
Saying and thinking about “what if” is a horrible thing. It keeps you up at night, it makes your life hell because you are always looking over your shoulder and hoping that your “what if” doesn’t come true.
Whats worse is when your “what if” does come true. Then your mind feels it is validated in thinking the what if’s. Your what if’s get more and more extreme, and you wonder if near impossible things could actually happen to you.
This is why I want to stop doing this, why when I finally get around to making my list of goals reflect which ones are more important to me, this one will be one of the first if not the first. Do you know how to stop saying what if? Please tell me!
