spend less time on facebook

I think going tepid-turkey was part of my downfall.

Admittedly over the past week quite a few people have messaged me to catch up before christmas, so I think in the new year I honestly will have less reason to log on.

Instead Ill be pursuing other things and keeping occupied.

Now Ive realised that facebook consists of mainly aquaintances and friends that if we really wanted to talk we wouldnt use facebook to go about it, I have actually developed a life away from the prying eyes of fellow facebookers.

When people realise youre not pursuing an active role on facebook they tend to actively avoid involving you anyway so other then a few tags and the planning of a night out there hasnt been much activity and nothing really drawing me to go on there except visualshelf.

Ive also tried to stop logging in and instead opt for checking updates through my phonebook instead … I am definitely not missing out on anything!

Ive turned into a ghostbooker!!!!

I may have dramtically cut down my activity on facebook but I still check it several times a day (the downfall of having a phone with internet access)

On the upside, because I dont actually do anything it appears as though Im only on there every couple weeks but its not only a facade, its defeating the purpose of this goal which is to spend less time on facebook, not less time commenting and more time stalking. I need to work on this!

Through my experience, it ruins relationships, minimises actual communication with anyone who remotely matters and leads to jealousy and envy between friends.

Its not worth it and the falseness of it all tends to leave me unhappy. I could just about fall out with every friend I have from all the stalking that comes with being on the site … I want to start using alot less by the end of the year (i sound like an addict), otherwise I’ll feel like I’m missing out on all the festivites! But it has to be done … Wish me luck!