Dear 43 Things Users,

10 years after introducing 43 Things to the world, we have decided we have met our last goal: completing the incredible experience that has been 43 Things. Please join us in giving one last cheer to all the folks who have shared their goals with the world, as well as all the people who have worked at The Robot Co-op to build this incredible website. We won a Webby Award, published a book, and brought happiness to a lot of people.

Starting today, 43 Things users can export their goals and entries from the site. Starting August 15, we will make the site “read only”. 43 Things users will still be able to view the site and export their content, but we won’t be taking any new content from users. We hope to leave the site up for folks to see and download their content until the end of the year. Ending on New Year’s Eve takes us full circle.

It has been a long ride (one of our original goals was to "build a company that lasts at least 2 years” - we beat that one!) While we wish the site could live on, it has suffered from a number of challenges - changes in how people use the site, the advertising industry, and how search engines view the site. We wish the outcome was different – but we’ve always been realistic about when our goals are met and when they aren't.

As of today, you will be able to download your goals and entries. See more about that on the FAQ page. Thanks for 10 great years of goal-setting and achieving.

- The Robots.

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beavis1989 is doing 1 thing including…

Let go of my worries and my paranoia and learn to relax


beavis1989 has written 1 entry about this goal

I need help =[

Its me and my boyfriends 1 year anaversary in a few weeks. and for the whole year weve been together, ive been paranoid as hell. It drives me mad. Everytime he goes out the door all I can think about is that he is gonna cheat on me, i start to panic when he gets home later than what he said he would, even when he went to work I would panic. I dont know why im like this with him, ive never been this way with anyone else ive been with. I love him dearly, I really do. We have things total great, we live together and its totally amazing. Hes the only one for me. Ive known him for about 5 years, and we where great friends before we started dating. Ive never been in abusive relationships and never been with someone who has cheated on me. He dosent have a track record for cheating either.

I worry constantly about everything. My mum died tradgicly when i was 13, im 19 now. My dad was diagnosed with chronic emphazema a few weeks before my 18th birthday. I worry every single day about him. I worry every day incase i lose my job, I always worry about what people think about me. I worry about every aspect in my life. I guess im pretty good at hideing all this, even my boyfriend Martin dosent know all this. I find it hard opening up and letting all this out. I thought of getting a diary just to write all this down, but i worry incase someone finds it and reads it as we usually have quite a lot of people round at mines quite often.

I just dont know what to do

Its ruining my life


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