beckerkorn / BlueHeron in Seattle is doing 43 things including…

get sterilized

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beckerkorn / BlueHeron has written 6 entries about this goal

OK 15 months ago

I’ve spent the time thinking about it, talking about it, and imagining it…

and now I know I really want to do it!!!

I’m so excited. Now that I don’t feel stuck on the issue I can feel free to make so many other plans for my life.



A (partial) list 15 months ago

of famous unchilded people in history:

http://www.childfreebychoice.com/history.htm



I found a doctor 17 months ago

Now I just have to make sure I’m sure.

This involves not overanalyzing it too much. Just reflecting on/feeling out who I am and what I want for my life.



IUDs: 19 months ago

Not so cool!

They can cause serious health problems, especially if they’re a poor fit for your uterus.

More trouble than they’re worth. Back to Plan A. Getting fixed!!



Getting sterilized 2 years ago

is expensive.

Until then, I think I’ll go with an IUD.



Here's the deal. 2 years ago

To my mind, the only difference between adoption and having your own is that in the latter case, you’re passing down your DNA. Either way, you’re raising a child.

If I decide to raise children, I’m going to adopt. I don’t care one damn bit whether or not I pass on my genes. And I don’t want to be personally responsible for adding another human to this earth, when I know it’s already overpopulated. With knowledge comes responsibility, after all.

So why not “get fixed” and make what I intend never to do (be pregnant) an impossibility??



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