learn to trust

I try to trust the guy im with but i do feel that he will or is doing something behind my back,i have no evidence of this nor has he given me reason to suspect anything.he did hurt me once and i think i’m still trying to deal with it deep down but try not to let it show.What i think is how do we really know if were paranoid or its gut instinct !!!!!!

Although it sounds cheesy it is better to have loved and lost, if you go through a relationship never trusting the only person it hurts is you.If someone has it in mind that their gonna do you over you can’t do anything to stop that but might aswell enjoy the part of your life where you have them.People go throgh their lives so alone because not ever trusting anyone means you can never get hurt.
But these life experience make us strong make us better people,the people that hurt us arnt that strong and need to feel in power so by hurting people it makes them feel “big”.
To fully trust someone is hard but i think never to let anyone in and never trust anyone is harder.