beckymw in Ann Arbor is doing 30 things including…

not take things so personally

1 cheer

 

beckymw has written 2 entries about this goal

Justified?

There’s a part in the movie “Erin Brockovich” where she talks about her work being personal. She says, “NOT PERSONAL? That is my WORK, my SWEAT, and MY TIME AWAY FROM MY KIDS! IF THAT IS NOT PERSONAL, I DON’T KNOW WHAT IS!”

I think this is why meeting this goal is so difficult. When I do something at work, I put time and effort into it. It causes me stress that I feel both at work and at home, and often the time I spend on it cuts into my personal time as well. So if anything I do gets criticized or I’m told that I’m not doing enough, yeah, I’m going to take it personally. Does this mean that I’m justified in taking things personally? Well, maybe just a little. I still want to cut back on taking things to heart because I think it will ultimately help my stress level, but there is something to be said for pride in one’s work.



Sometimes

I need to remind myself of this one. There was a situation today that was beyond my control, but could be perceived as my fault. It’s tempting to get defensive and protect my integrity, but really, it isn’t about me, and it really isn’t worth getting upset over.

Dear me,
Just be objective. Be firm about issues and soft on people. It isn’t about you. It’s just work.



beckymw has gotten 1 cheer on this goal.

 

I want to:
43 Things Login