have a longterm/stable/fulfilling romantic relationship

aldy and allen will arrive at jfk in a few hours. we’re finally able to be a family who lives together. it’s gonna be a huge relief now that we can live together, travel together and make all our decisions together. this will definitely help fulfill the “stable” part of this goal.

we are still long distance and it’s starting to stress me, but the visa application is filed and we’ll see how we can do with the wait.

i’m engaged!

we’re long distance and we had a few arguments this trip, centered mainly around visa crap, but all in all we communicate very well.

i’ve had a few longterm relationships, but i have never, ever had a stable or fulfilling relationship. i’ve finally cleared out a lot of the dead wood, am starting to let go of some of the baggage and am embarking on a new relationship that i really think will be very important in my life.