working on it
4 years ago
If DH can’t be honest with himself, he can’t be honest with me. Ignoring a quasi-physical, intensely emotional “affair” WILL NOT make it go away. Is it worth it to try to deal with my own emotional fallout without any input from him? Would I have more peace of mind without this cloud hanging over my head? It’s completely within his power to ease my mind, but it would require him admitting his own weakness and recognizing his own culpability. If that is beyond him, where do I go from here? I’m probably one of the few women in the world that would be better off financially, but at what cost to myself and my kids?
