Strive always to be truthful and encourage honesty from others in my life by helping them to understand that the truth is the only way forward, hopefully encouraging those whose paths cross with mine to believe that the truth really does set you free...

is a trait I really admire in people.

To be brave and tell the absolute truth is a really hard thing to do, it can make you feel sick, especially when you know it is going to cause anguish to another.

Then sometimes you don’t know how it will affect the person, that’s a tricky one.

Anyhow, I have been doing some wrestling with my own degrees of honesty for the last few days. Mostly because I don’t know if the most negative outcome could be the most beneficial, for me that is. But that’s where I get into the realm of selfishness. And that makes me very uncomfortable, but then there is a feeling that it could just be that this is all one of those curveballs life throws at you, problem is not so much that I can’t catch it, it’s more I don’t know which way to throw it after I have….

and I bloody hate liars.

Ask yourself this, whay are you telling that lie? What on earth will it achieve? Ultimately I can guarantee the short term gain leads to long term misery. Afterall you inevitably get caught out, you cause pain and whoever it was you lied to will never trust you again.

Please undersatnd I am talking about lies here, not fibs, not like the stuff about Father christmas and the Easter Bunny.

Besdies it’s my goal it can mean whatever I like.

:)