Be decisive

Often times I suddenly realize that I’m surrounded by indecisiveness and just snap and make a decision. Sometimes I realize that I’m being ridiculously indecisive and make the decision myself. And sometimes the simplest things seem like the end of the world.

I’m better about this, but think I need to be a bit more aware and thoughtful about the goal.

I’m doing pretty well with this lately. I’m now seeing, however, that I’m not the only person in my life who’s horrible at planning and making decisions. It SUCKS when I’m finally able to make a decision but someone is preventing me from doing so.

Still, I’m getting better. Cool.

I’ve been really good during this visit! I’m learning to compromise! Not only does it help eliminate frustration, but we both get a bit of what we want. It’s been a great time, really, and this is a really big part of it all.

I picked the restaurant last night… no debating, no arguing… good food!

I made an on-the-spot decision to move to Chicago. I was 95% sure I’d make the move, but I still haven’t found a job yet, so I was putting off the decision. The perfect apartment came along, though, and I couldn’t let my friends turn it down.

Tonight I went out to dinner with my friend. We’re both usually very apathetic about where to go and what to eat… but tonight I picked the restaurant and we didn’t have to sit in her driveway, debating which way to turn and what we were in the mood for :-P