stop being a perfectionist

Its causing me a great trouble in my life. I used to watch my maid doing cleaning..sweeping in very clumsy manner. I tried all the tricks on her to make sure that she should not loose her job by doing all the nuisance deliberately. But my yelling..telling to her ..all gone waste as she refused to cooperate with me. Last month when she stopped coming and I watched her going to my neighbor to clean there house. I called her and asked politely. She gave me several lame excuses. I burst out with all my suppressed emotions and fired her. Till then I am doing all work myself. No doubt I found satisfaction when I look my image back in glittering floors. But now I am tired and looking for another maid But after cleaning my house by my own it looks unsatisfactory to watch other maid’s work. I know with my office going schedule its not possible to do all the work forever. But my perfection to every work does not allow me to over look the dirty work done by maids. What to do?

I am tired,I want every job done in such perfect manner as it is done by professionals,to achieve this I live every moment in tension, I know this is my virgo quality,that I seldome leave my room uncleaned,always remember dates,want to do every thing in excel. But you have to make compromise some where,every time you can’t be a perfectionist.