Realize that some people are never going to be the people you thought they might be and be ok with that

NEWSFLASH!! The world DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU WENDY!!! I am tired of making up excuses for you and rationalizing your selfish behavior! I am officially cutting you out of my life! Find some other poor slob to boss around and be your lackey!!

This has got to be the hardest goal yet to realize. I wish I could just accept the fact that my sister is selfish, greedy, angry, and unhappy. She faults me for being selfish although she has done practically nothing for our elderly mother and blames me for everything! She hates me for my honesty and my selflessness and attempts to make herself feel better by constantly putting me down. I don’t want to sink to her level but, how can you not when you are constantly being denigrated and called names? I am so tired of this. It is sad that she feels she has to hurt my mother in order to “get back at me”.

All this drama, because my mother asked her to rent a car when she visits. So now, she has cancelled her reservations therefore, depriving mother of seeing the grandchildren! I wish this was just a sad joke.