I am doing very good work towards this goal. I have consistently went swimming once a week for 4 weeks. I am solid in that. Now, I am starting to think about what I need to do to regularly (and consistently) get in a second swim a week.
In learning to do this I am learning something about myself.
I am finding out (Wow! It has taken me this long??) that I can’t just want to do something and so, then, it will like happen. I have to want it I have to work at it I have to remind myself often I have to enlist friends to do things with me I have to get friends and family and 43T folks to encourage me I have to encourage myself.
I knew this about things I didn’t like—but I love swimming! I have a membership to a lovely club with a lovely pool where my workplace gets a discount. It is drafted out of my paycheck so I never see the money. I have no less than 8-12 swimsuits—that I look better in than I do my clothes. The pool is indoor and they keep it warm enough to not shock you but not so hot it it bath-like. They use ozone instead of chlorine. There is a sauna and a hot tub. When I get there at 7PM it is usually pretty empty. The locker room is clean and spacious and has shower curtains and changing rooms. They provide towels. They have a swimsuit dryer called a “SuitMate.” They provide hairdryers, lotion and shampoo. There is plenty of hot water in the shower. My 4 best friends belong to the same club—and 2 people I work with—and we all encourage each other. The staff at the club, from trainers to desk folks to custodians to lifeguards are all very nice friendly and helpful.
So—I have no impedance to going swimming. None. It is 7 miles from where I park my car in a park and ride lot and there is a bit of traffic, and it is 15 miles from my house (country miles)—so there is perhaps a small “geographical” impedance. I can’t take my dog. She is a Jack Russel. Thinks the world ends every day when I go to work. But she also leads a thrilling life without me (A neighbor is a sculptor so she hangs out with him when I am not home.)
One small impedance and 100 good reasons to go and I am just now achieving 1/2 of my desired goal of going swimming 2x a week.
Goals take work. How did I get to be like, 107 years old and not know this? Even when I want to do something, I have to train myself to do it. Duh! The 40 watt bulb has gone off over my head.
So, my continuing work on this goal: My other best friend (and commuting partner on Tuesdays) has went with me the last couple of weeks as a guest. He and I are going tonight. The club has an indoor track and he is a runner. So I am hoping he will decide to join also. We’re good for each other: encouragement, life goals, mutual respect-wise. So if he joined I’d at least be there every week on Tuesdays.
I have another friend that is way too busy that I’d really like to see more often. She likes to swim also and her son is my godson… so I keep speaking to her about it. If I could see her and my godson more than 2x a year it would be great—and to get some fitness in the bargain—well that would just be a bonus.
OK Now I am going to email the other 4 friends and see who is up for a swim another night this week and when. And I am going to plant a seed again with the friend that is too busy.
That is all I can think to do on a rainy Tuesday. If anyone has any other suggestions I am most appreciative.
Thanks for listening! b.