Be less serious

Sometimes I feel like I’m way too serious. I am funny, and I can have fun, but usually, I’m more serious. My ex used to be facetious; she’d always say the opposite of what was expected, or something totally unexpected. I loved that about her but I couldn’t seem to be as witty as her because I’m generally too serious. When I do become a goof, I’m just a goof. It seem like I need to know when to be fun and playful, and when to be serious, and balance it out properly with probably a little bit more fun in my life than seriousness.