write down 43 life lessons

When in a relationship avoid the words: always & never in an argument. E.G. you always do this or you never do that…...In doing so you are not in the present but keep bringing up the things that were said to have been resolved and buried already.

Silence and not wearing your heart on your tongue all the time can bring you great gifts!

Let me explain. I am a person who has always spoken her mind and not stood at the sideline when discussions get heated.

The past year I have learned that not reacting to e.g. rude comments, has made it possible to come out as the winner in the situation. Before I thought that not reacting/ responding was a sign of weakness, but now I know better.

My mom once told me: “Sometimes love (alone) isn’t enough”
I hoped that I wouldn’t have to experience it, but unfortunately I have..

Another quote I like:
“Too much of a good thing is just right”-Mae West.

I believe that we should remember to indulge ourselves in good things…if we don’t do it for ourselves, who will????

“Never apologize for showing feeling, when you do so you apologize for truth”-Benjamin Disreali

I just love this quote ;-)

Miracles happen in numerous ways. What comes to you is limited only by your expectations!Expect miracles!

Let go of old patterns that no longer express your true self. Reflect on the lessons learned and re-invent yourself.

Be patient in life! Compare the following proverbs: all good things come to those who wait vs. Rome was not built in a day.

Whenever you suffer a loss (e.g. death of friends and/or family , friendships gone bad, losing a job etc. etc) heal your soul by looking at what it this has taught you, how wonderful it was when you had them or it….Loss is unfortunately a part of life. The way we choose to deal with it shows how much we have learned in life!

Not because we can’t see certain things doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Open your mind to the wonders of the world ;-) Believe in pronoia but don’t become paranoid.