cultivate and maintain a relationship with an Native guy

吸引力是强大自我实力

洞察力是抛弃自我意识

这才有趣不是么？

感情就是要讨价还价的感觉嘛

the only way is show your ability.

respect is precious resouce, that’s why people like that.

only respect you can win is because people know that they may need you one day.

大方得体有品位

So, not so good yet

i should be on facebook, rather on renren

i lost my chance long ago…

The best part I know what I myself think and what’s he think

What I want is a friend, and I am just a little motionally rely on the person , but actually, I didn’t agree his lifestyle, know what he want to be in the future, and whats his self building image.

For the 6 parts:
1 appearance :Win
2 wealth: equal or win
3 social status: loss
4 knowledge: equal or different
5 social manner or characteristic: win
6 moral quality: equal

I should know reason.
Because I feel a little boasted. And I am a little lazy.

I didnt give many things to him, so I didn’t deserve anything extra. So what can I do to make a native friend? I

Yes, ran is always a good friend to me, and he is native.
But seems I am a little into him, again!

CJ is friendly to me.
And hug me today. Which did’t make me uncomfortable. I think he may feel happy to be my friend.