christinet in Holmes Beach is doing 28 things including…

Allow myself to only be treated well by the people I choose to have friendships and relationships with. If they do not, I need to find the courage to move on without them.

20 cheers


christinet has written 3 entries about this goal


is an ongoing theme in my life at this time. Its ironic that when I first adopted this goal I was with a man and then suddenly I found myself in love with a WOMAN!!!(an equally dysfunctional more than slightly criminal and severely substance abuse addicted woman,, but a woman nonetheless)
and now I’ve got to find the courage to leave THIS BITCH alone…. I recently read a poster that said. “the only consistent feature in all your dissatisfying relationships is you” Scary, but true.

I DID IT!!!!!

I left him…maybe out of the frying pan into the fire…but like we say in Spanish el que no arriesga no cruza el mar…(if you don’t take a risk you’ll never know what you’re missing (literally cross the ocean)

Sometimes something so simple like this will be an eye opener.....

This left me with my mouth open….I have let the father of my son treat me like I was less than him for so long….It hurts alot but at the same time sometimes I don’t think I deserve better. Also my love for him has allowed me to be blinded by the reality of our relationship which is that I ALLOW him to treat me like this….I LET him back into my life cuz I think finally he’s gonna change, he really loves me, he can’t help it!!!
BULLSHIT!!!! I need strength….I am weak….I need him out of my life for good..whoever came up with this goal THANK YOU

christinet has gotten 20 cheers on this goal.


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