Self-confidence isn’t like a trait, such as blue eyes or blond hair. Self-confidence is achieved by acting like you have self-confidence. You have to do more than say you have self-confidence, too. Acting self confident makes you feel self-confidence and reciprocates back to the self-confident act even more.
Sounds too simple. Sounds like a cop out. But maybe it’s not. The mind is a powerful thing. You especially know this if you’ve had one of those dreams where you experience something happen and then a few weeks later it happens and you have kind of a deja vu moment. (Does anyone else do that too or am I just superhuman? It’s creepy as hell)
I’m going to try this and I’ll report back in a week or so. If you’re reading this, try it too. I know it sounds hard, but if you think it’s hard and you can’t do it, you’re right. Get a friend to help you along, and if necessary, send me a message and I’ll come out and give you a hug. :)
