make more guy friends

I have some guy friends at church, in a couple of my classes, and I’m friends with like half the guys in my choir, so I think this is good. I just have to work on building solid friendships with them, but that’s not what I had originally planned for this goal, so I can deem this one through.

Okay so I’ve been talking to a bunch more guys these past couple weeks. There are like five in my choir class (three of which I think will become good friends), and another guy in my french class. I know its only six, but that’s really good for me. I’m hoping to meet a lot more people this coming semester, bu for now, I will relax.

but I still only have one really good guy friend, M. I also talk to a few guys regularly like C, S, D, N, J. So it’s getting easier for me to relate to them. I just need to get a little trust going on in these casual acquaintances and I’ll be finished!!

Just got home from my first day at school. I have only really made acquaintance with one new guy, which isn’t bad I guess seeing as I endured 7 hours of the same policy we’ve known since kindergarten repeated 7 times, and I’m so incredible grumpy today because I had to wake up at 6. I’m hoping this acquaintanceship will flourish to the point where we hang out often. I hope we’ll be able to trust each other because that is one of the most important things in friendship. Of course I jus met him, so i don’t know if all this is possible…

Is there any way I can hint to a guy that I just want to be friends? Should I talk about other guys, just say it outright or is there a better solution? I’ve never really had this problem before… maybe that means I on the right path to accomplish this goal. I guess my main problemm with finding guy friends is that when this kind of thing happens I just end up liking him back because it’s easier. That’s pathetic. So I’m hoping that when school starts back up (tomorrow…) that I’ll be better at this.

Makes three!! Now just waiting for school to start Monday…