have children

• Go camping
• Visit the zoo
• Go on holiday with everyone at least once a year
• Visit family in Germany on a regular basis (not only on special occasions such as birthdays, Christmas etc.)

My activites:

On their birthday:

• Plant a tree for each of my children
• Give each child a meaningful present from their mum (e. g. a necklace or a bracelet) which shall be a signal of our bond
• Start a savings account for each child to finance university later on
• Start a photo album (or scrap book?) for each child and write down every important or interesting occurence, which happens during his/her childhood

Childhood:

• Read bedtime stories
• Have a special lullaby to sing for each child (music box)
• Have a single bedroom for each child
• Raise them bilingual (English/German)
• Participate in baby swimming courses with each child
• Attend a workshop to give my children proper baby massages
• Get my children a place at a music school (early childhood education)
• Attend mother-child gymnastic groups with each child
• Get them a place in a bilingual nursery school (and school)
• Build my children a tree house
• Find one or several clubs they like and drive them there

• Pay for each child’s driver’s licence

• Cook a healthy meal every day
• Take time to listen to my children, no matter what I’m doing at that moment!!!
• Teach them general stuff(cooking, doing the laundry, cleaning etc.)
• Explain, teach and show them the world as good as I can (and never say: “You’re too young to understand this!”)
• Make each birthday party one of the greatest events in the year for my children

• swim
• ride a horse
• ride a bicycle without training wheels
• ski
• ice skate
• rollerblade

TO BE CONTINUED…

I started, as probably most girls did, as a mother of some baby dolls. My mother always said to me that I was a very considerately doll mother. I began babysitting when I was eleven years old. Now I’m twice that age, have learnt a lot about children (I made, among other things, an education as a nursery school teacher, which I didn’t finish – however, it’s got nothing to with the children) and though I love children and, besides having my own, intend to adopt some, I’m not ready to have children yet. There is so much I need to do first. It’ll take some years before I can make an attempt; let alone that I’ll, obviously, need I boyfriend ;-) But if I can offer my future children a better life by doing first thing first, I’m happy. Have already decided on names, though ^^