date

Ok i almost wanna laugh at this goal, i have almost failed miserably. Lets see what ive done so far

1) i go clubbing no dating potential or if they are they are running after the chinese gals which is ok why not
2) Online dating sites this has resulted in 2 dates lol and 2 friends lol but is it what am saying or how im coming across either way its just not working.The site im on is plentyoffish.com its ok its free i get emails but it seems they all want a quick fling or rather Sex. Im all for sex but i just dont want to be having one night stands and it seems the online dating sites this is all im getting.

Im almost giving up. hmmm…... what to do what to do

OK, So i went clubbing this weekend and im trying to meet new guys, date more, lol. So i went to a club which plays house in one room and was playing hiphop/rnb/rap in another room upstairs. I walked into the hiphop room and i had never seen so many africans in one place in shanghai before, The bells went off in my head DANGER DANGER lol

Its strange im an african avoiding africans, weird, anyway i walked in and was totally turned off by the guys i saw, they were back in 1990’s dressing attitude i was appalled. i think im growing old cause i remember i used to love men who dressed like that now i kinda want a more sophisticated look.

Plus im avoiding most africans for fear they are Nigerian lol, ive had my share of crooks, and the whole MY SISTA!!! thing please no no no no no no no. Not to say all Nigerians are crooks its just that its hard to believe them and trust them. lol Husslers galore lol

I went to the house room and danced the night away, but im a black volumptous women and i dont think i appeal to the men here, honestly why would i appeal to them, yes i know i have a good heart, its my insides that count blah blah blah, but if i was a man i think shanghai would be the place to be, there is so much pussy out here, the chinese want foreign men and these chics are short and petite and many in numbers plus there are plenty of foreign women needing some loving, I mean this is the place for men, wow men can have a different chic each night so why would they settle down?

MEN MEN MEN

Is my case really unique, im 25 yrs old, im old but still young, i feel like ive let 10 years pass me by with nothing of meaning actually happening.

am i looking in the wrong places?
am i hanging out with the wrong people?
is it a matter of luck?
what is it about me that men dont like?
what is it about me that i dont get dates?
am i to approach men?
is it the type of men im interested in?
is it old fashioned to wait for the guy to make the move?

I know im beautiful, is it that im not putting it across?
i dont know but these are my stats and i want to change them.

slept with 4 guys
dated 5 guys
longest relationship 3 months

My aim is not to sleep my ass off with loads of guys but to date more. So how do i do this? hmm thats the main question