get a makeover

So I let my eyebrows grow out a bit, and did end up hennaing my hair. Both did make a difference in my appearence, but not as much as I had hoped. I really need a hair cut and style, because right now it basically just hangs there. My skin is pretty clear right now, but then again it is winter. It’s not flawless though, and it may never be. So, new goals:

1)Get a hair cut and style (but keep it long)
2)Ear piercings
3)Beta sitersol and wrinkle cream for my skin
4)Tone my body (I did lose 10 lbs and have kept it off!)
5)A signature ‘scent”
6)Girly accesories
7)Clothes and shoes
7)Get tattooed again (finally!)
I feel like I’m getting too old to still be so unhappy about my appearence. I would be cool with it if I had done everything I could, but I KNOW I can look better than I do. Still, it shouldn’t be a priority, right? Then again it’s depressing because the reason I can’t improve my appearence is because my bf doesn’t have a job, and I have no money to buy any of the things I want :(

Wow, ok…so I lightened my eyebrows in preparation for hennaing them and my hair…they were black before and VERY thin…I realize after lightening them that I look less severe now, but the overall shape is far too thin for my square, moderately large featured face. Also I thought my eyes were close set so I plucked the beginnings so they start directly over my eye, but this makes them look shorter and a bit unnatural. When i smile and I have “chipmunk” cheeks there is nothing to offset them, and my hair is like the same color of my skin. I am going to order then henna soon…I have had my hair red before and it looked awesome, but of course it washed out lol.

1)Ear piercings
2)Henna my hair
3)Clearest skin I can
4)Lose 10 lbs
5)”girly” items- perfume, nail polish, hair accessories, jewelry
6)clothes and shoes I like
7)Dye my eyebrows?