have a girlfriend

I’m not interacting enough, i don’t go out much and when i do it is with very few friends that are not fun as i want.
the problem is that i’m not having enough fun in my life, even though i have many priviledges, like not having to work too much (i found a part time job with good pay), i’m having interesting projects, and yet, something’s missing.

I really want to find someone who is passionate about what she’s doing, she is smart, not stressed, like sports, does what she likes in her life and I’m attracted to.
I see here some who sound very nice and real, but I haven’t been able to connect with one I really want in the real world.