doggles in Sydney is doing 41 things including…

learn to say no without feeling guilty

21 cheers

 

doggles has written 3 entries about this goal

said no to helping with weeding today 4 weeks ago

felt guilty but stopped myself from apologising.



said no but... 2 years ago

i’m feeling very guilty. i’m listening to chopin to try and calm myself down! the combination of work’s disorganisation with rotas and my own is not great. i only had two shifts this week, which isn’t enough money to live on, so i asked for more work… they said maybe and put me on a standby list for wednesday, thursday, friday. i wasn’t actually expecting any work. nothing on wednesday. thursday i got called in and was in work within half an hour. today i got called and asked to work, and i said yes, even though i have a million and one things to do today, including getting back home (a long journey) for a good friend’s wedding tomorrow. then i called back and said no i can’t work, sorry. oops! i should never have said i would be available in the first place, but i was eager to make myself as available as possible to get at least some work. they do have a lot of employees so they’ll probably find someone fairly easily.



13th april: minor success number 1 2 years ago

said to my boss today that i wouldn’t work sundays. i didn’t give a reason (although would have happily done so if he had asked – i want to go to church). i didn’t apologise and he accepted it without question. i was quite surprised.

yay :)



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