be more optimistic and positive

There are so many things to complain about. No matter how grateful I am for my life, my health, my home, my friends and family, everything, I still find plenty of time to moan about things (why can’t we have casual Friday at work like EVERYONE else in the world does? I hate that my roommate leaves dishes in the sink rather than in the dishwasher. I hate that if there is half an inch of snow on the ground my mailman refuses to deliver my mail, I complain that right before I sold my car it had a flat tire and the tail light went out all at once, like it was intentionally trying to delay the sale.) Anyway, you get the point. I wouldn’t want to hang around with people who were always complaining, so why would I want to be that person?